WHERE THERE’S A WISH, THERE’S A WILL By Molly Carey, Esq. Imagine this. At the ripe old age of 105, you’re on your deathbed. You’re surrounded by your adult children. You’ve lived your life fully, wholly, your heart is content and your soul at peace. Then, a sudden and terrifying thought occurs to you, striking a panic so fierce it sends your failing heart into a haywire pattern that unnecessarily expedites your body’s demise, not good considering your fragile and delicate state. You're hit with the reality that you've never actually put all your dying wishes in writing! Time slows to a crawl. In a dazed and dreadful way, you're faced with the truth that your eldest daughter may never wear your mother’s spectacular ruby ring you’d always envisioned. You wonder if that shiny baby blue Thunderbird convertible you kept impeccable, would ever be driven by your grandson that you’re so proud of for having passed the bar exam this past summer. Then even more disconcerting, the intruding thought of your darling pet parakeet, Pablo, going uncared for - who will listen to him sing, you wonder. So many racing thoughts, so many dying wishes, yet all potentially unfulfilled. Then, the notion washes over you that abruptly brings you to your tipping point. The possibility of a family fight ensuing over your earthly possessions is too much for your beating heart to bear. Regrettably, remorsefully, ironically, you draw your last breath, wishing now only that you had written down all your dying wishes, and journey on. The Benefits to a Having a Will
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